This morning, i got one message from my old friend: "Loving she whom you marry or Marrying she whom you love?"
Maybe, a lot of us will be confused with this question. No, don't think like that!
One thing that i want to show you: love is not complicated. if you wanna deeply think it, you'll choose that Loving she whom you marry is better. We all know that we don't always get what we want or marry with whom we love. why? wanna know?what is love?
If we think that we must marry with whom we love, we will do whatever we can (strong minded, enthusiastic --> that's a positive side). but, the negative side is the way to get it can be illegitimate. whereas, We all know that we don't always get what we want. the person who think like that will be suffered. it's contrast to love. of course, love must not make us suffered.
Although there are so many the meanings of Love in this world, i wanna show you that love is "combination of thinking and feeling". it means that love does not only need a hearth, but also an intellect. many of people only use a hearth in loving. they never use their mind in loving someone. love is "co-reaction". it means that we not only want to be loved, but also love. love is the feed back friendship. lover does not only love someone, but also must be loved. it will be love, if there is a relationship between two persons (don't change the rule of nature!) and then they love each other. if one of them only loves another, it is not love, but passions.
Maybe, a lot of us will be confused with this question. No, don't think like that!
"Loving she whom you marry or Marrying she whom you love?"
One thing that i want to show you: love is not complicated. if you wanna deeply think it, you'll choose that Loving she whom you marry is better. We all know that we don't always get what we want or marry with whom we love. why? wanna know?what is love?
We all know that we don't always get what we want
If we think that we must marry with whom we love, we will do whatever we can (strong minded, enthusiastic --> that's a positive side). but, the negative side is the way to get it can be illegitimate. whereas, We all know that we don't always get what we want. the person who think like that will be suffered. it's contrast to love. of course, love must not make us suffered.
Although there are so many the meanings of Love in this world, i wanna show you that love is "combination of thinking and feeling". it means that love does not only need a hearth, but also an intellect. many of people only use a hearth in loving. they never use their mind in loving someone. love is "co-reaction". it means that we not only want to be loved, but also love. love is the feed back friendship. lover does not only love someone, but also must be loved. it will be love, if there is a relationship between two persons (don't change the rule of nature!) and then they love each other. if one of them only loves another, it is not love, but passions.
"combination of thinking and feeling"
